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Marvell Cruickshank Celebrates Court-ordered Return of Her Children

By Mary Alice Miller

Marvell Cruickshank has been celebrating every day for the past few weeks. Family Court ordered the return of her daughters from foster care supervision.  “I feel relief because they are home. They have been in foster care for two years without a cause. It is a relief to our family,” said Marvell Cruickshank. “I just give thanks to the creator for watching over my babies, keeping them safe in this terrifying situation. They are home safe and sound. I don’t have to wonder if someone is hurting them or mistreating them. It was not a day that went by where I was not worried. I can go back to being a mother to my babies.” The children are happy to be home.

“I feel great,” said Tyonna, 11. “I like being home so that I can spend more time with mommy. I like being back in my own home and see all the things my mommy bought us and sleep in my own bed in my room.”

While leaning on her mom, Arianah, 6, said, “I like being back home with mommy,” with a big grin on her face. “We get to go places like the library. I like that. I like that I get to sleep in my own bed. I like being with mommy. We make earrings and do things together.” Both children love their mother’s cooking. “It’s a party in my tummy,” said Arianah. “I eat it all.”

The children were allowed to come home on July 19, during an extended heat wave. “We sat down in the living room under the air conditioner and just hugged each other and sitting quietly,” said Marvell. When they came home, they started pulling out their old toys. The first thing the two of them did was pull out their scooters.

“Later, my older daughter was walking around the apartment reacquainting herself with home,” Marvell said. “The most important thing for me is allowing them to explore their home environment as if nothing changed.”

For the rest of the summer, Marvell is going to try to take them to as many events as possible, and the library so they can have a good time and enjoy the rest of the summer.

As reported in Our Time Press, Marvell’s children were removed from her care two years ago based upon false allegations from her teen daughter, who did not want to live by her mother’s cultural and religious values. During that time, Marvell missed Arianah’s pre-K graduation because no one at the agency thought to notify her.  Arianah has experienced several serious injuries while under foster care supervision and still bears dark scars from 2nd-degree burns she received in one co-foster mother’s home.

Marvell is apprehensive about public schooling due to how she was treated when her children were removed. In addition, Marvell received a letter from Arianah’s school three months after the child was removed from class and placed into foster care. The letter stated “your child has missed 51 days and has been late 11 days of school this year”. Marvell is seriously considering homeschooling her children.

Marvell credits the Committee to Honor Black Heroes for arming her with the knowledge to navigate the system and “speak out about the cruelty of ACS against my family and I. They were so eager to dismantle my family. ” Now that her children are home Marvell said, “I don’t take one moment with them for granted.”

City Council Candidates Vying To Replace Al Vann In Bed-Stuy Address Gentrification

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By Stephen Witt

As Robert Cornegy, Kirsten John Foy, Rev. Conrad Tillard and Rev. Dr. Robert Waterman head into the final weeks before the Democratic Primary in the race to succeed term-limited Al Vann in the City Council and represent Bedford-Stuyvesant, Crown Heights and Weeksville, Our Time Press asked the candidates the following question:

How would you as City Councilman plan to strike a balance between welcoming the newcomers to the neighborhood and maintaining the longtime characteristics of the community?

The following are their answers:

Robert Cornegy: “I have a long-standing partnership with the Block and Tenant Associations in the district. They are the official greeters for all newcomers to the area and they make a concerted effort to include all new residents in their associations. One has only to look around the district to see the integration of age, culture and faith to know that they are successful.  As District Leader, I take pride in promoting all aspects of the district, from the cornerstones of our community to newcomers alike. I stand with those who want to see Bed-Stuy continue to thrive and grow.

Rev. Conrad Tillard: “I don’t see a conflict. First of all, one of the great things about great communities is that you always welcome newcomers. In fact, we have a great community and many great pastors, and even I heard Al Vann wasn’t originally from Bed-Stuy. Bed-Stuy also includes people born and raised here and they have great pride.

However, I don’t think newcomers should be recipients of long-term residents being forced out, losing their homes or signing over and selling their homes at a fraction of the cost. So in the past, I pulled together nonprofit organizations like Bridge Street Development and provided education to homeowners and foreclosure assistance. We also need to teach people how to pass their assets from one generation to the next. We also have some very savvy long-term residents that own four or five homes in Bed-Stuy. So we can strike the balance. Both my wife and I are not originally from Bed-Stuy so I can understand a new person wanting to come to Bed-Stuy. However, as a pastor and City Councilman, we must protect and preserve the folks that have been here for a long time.”

Kirsten John Foy: “I will work to ensure we have a community that is united by a mutual respect for the rich character and history of our neighborhoods – Bed-Stuy, Crown Heights and Weeksville – and the sense of community that exists within them.  I will support community events that bring all residents together to celebrate this and contribute to our entire community, and will make sure longtime residents have the ability to remain in our community. To do this, I intend to prioritize the strengthening and expansion of affordable housing for our residents and preserve the  homeownership of longtime residents through property tax relief. Reducing the zero sum game for housing will help avoid potential tension between new residents and our longtime indigenous residents.

Rev. Dr. Robert Waterman:  “When you use the term long-term character and newcomer, are we talking about gentrification? Are we talking about class? Are we talking about income? If so, when you look at Bed-Stuy you don’t have to make adjustments.  If you take Crown Heights, Stuyvesant Heights and Bed-Stuy and block it off you would see it exists today because you face a series of classism, income disparity and even some gentrification  from Crown Heights to Stuyvesant Heights to Bed-Stuy itself.

The balance is in the establishment of relationships. It starts with resident to resident, and through the community board and block associations. The balances in all these relationships are equal. When people have moved into the community we, the people of color, have always been most welcoming no matter who moved in based on income or race.  As City Councilman, you just build relationships. You’re serving the community. You have to serve all people no matter what income bracket they fall in or what race they are because if they live in that community the schools, hospitals and social services is for the community of people who live there.

Dr. Adelaide Sanford Speaks on Dr. John Henrik Clarke and the Trayvon Martin at Tribute to Dr. Clarke

“Dr. John Henrik Clarke was a transforming person. He was able to help you to understand your intrinsic worth. Unfortunately, our young people and some of our older people know our athletes and entertainers and those kept before us on various forms of media. But they don’t necessarily know those people who have changed the meaning of who they are. Dr. Clarke was one such person. In his book My Life in Search of Africa, he was taught by teachers who believed in him.

And he looked at the phenomenon that I call the Trayvon phenomenon. It is an American phenomenon.

If Dr. Clarke were alive, he would not have been surprised at the verdict. I was not surprised. I was hurt. Because if you know the history, you will understand what happened in that court. He was judged by people who knew nothing about him or family or his history.

And we with all the efforts that are made – Clarke House, CEMOTAP, the CARE Mentoring Program — we are telling the children who they are. We are helping them believe in themselves and their value by our relationship   with them, not only by talking to them and embracing them, but by listening to them and finding other people who will attach themselves to these children. That is what these supportive community based organizations do.

But in the Trayvon phenomenon, we are judged and evaluated by people who know nothing about us, the fact that Trayvon was a human being of value and character and brilliance. The people who sat in judgment of him did not know that.

Dr. Clarke was an educator in the schooling system and in the public system. In the schooling system, he was the head of African and Puerto Rican Studies at Hunter College, one of the highest positions that a person of African ancestry can reach in a European university. He was there because he understood that the people who teach our children, who judge our children, who give guidance to our children, don’t know anything about our children.

That’s the dilemma that I have got to put in your hearts today. Because in addition to you valuing yourself, and valuing your children, please understand that the world that they live in simultaneously is demeaning them.

In school system,  they are not learning about themselves. They are not told of their greatness and their potential. If they can play ball or be a musician or entertainer, they can be the master of the ball. And our boys all are. And many of our girls are. But they do not necessarily write the contracts that enable them to be able to help their people and relate to their people.

Dr. Clarke was not a person who believed a great deal in demonstrations. He said we need to be able to take the energy of the demonstrations and use it in a productive way.

I went to the two demonstrations in Philadelphia because I wanted to be near the heartthrob of the people. But I kept saying to the organizers, “Who is collecting the money?” If only at every demonstration each one of us had given one dollar, think how much money we would have to be able to solve some of the problems.

More than 15 years ago when Clarke House first came into existence, I had a conversation with Dr. Clarke about some of the things we should do. He said in the first place you have got to buy more houses. You’ve got to buy property. You’ve got to own something. You have to build something where you belong there and it is yours. He said then you have to build factories, and you know what kind of factory he talked about? A paper factory. He said let’s have a factory that manufactures all of the paper products that we have to use and are repetitively being used.

Dr. Clarke had an economic understanding of how to change our dependency. We haven’t done that.

So as I look at the Trayvon Martin phenomenon and look at it through the eyes of Dr. Clarke, he would say two things: First, build an economic base. Every time you come together to have a conversation or to make a protest or to let the world know you are not satisfied with the way they are treating us. That is fine. It bothered me at these demonstrations that we used to say “No Justice, No Peace.” Now we are just talking about peace. “No Justice” has been lost. That message of saying, “No Justice.” What does justice mean? It means that I control my destiny, that I put my money where it benefits my people, that I make sacrifices for them, and that I connect with them and validate them. That is my justice. It is not a justice that somebody can give to me. It is a justice that starts first with me. I believe that the demonstrations are important, but not without a collection to help solve some of the enormous economic problems that we confront.

If you walk across Brooklyn or Queens or Manhattan, how many institutions will you come across that between the hours of four o’clock and 12 are open to teenagers? These teenagers that we are worried about shooting each other, what else do they do but roam the streets? Where do they go? The churches are closed except at the hours of worship. The community-based organizations are struggling, waiting for someone to give them a grant or a fund of some kind so that they can keep the lights on.

But where are all the buildings where the children could come where we could show them that they are valuable? Not just tell them that they are valuable.

This is what Dr. Clarke would say. He would say let’s have some industry that supplies the basic needs of our people.

The world has known what hair products have done. The kinds of money that we have squandered trying to make our hair look like it’s not supposed to.

Sometimes we forget the congruence of the whole person. This is not the time to talk about that necessarily, but it is a time to help us understand how wasteful we have been while we are looking for someone to give us justice. Those people who we are looking to give us justice are making their living off of us. But our hair is smarter than we are because it will go back home every time.

We want to be beautiful.  I tell you that you are beautiful, and in your natural beauty you congruent where all of the parts fit together. And it is a magnificent spectacle to see. Dr. Clarke would say that.

And he would also say that until we get involved in those systems that judge our children, if you don’t get involved in saying to New York State the curriculum has to change so that the people who teach my child has respect for my child, there is a community for you to do that. But if I ask how many know your Regent and have ever written a letter saying the curriculum is omissive and distorted… We have given you that information. We told you in the Curriculum of Inclusion just how damaging it is. But if you are sitting back waiting for that teacher to be fair… If you are waiting for the members of the jury to be fair with them coming out of their background of privilege, Dr. Clarke would say we are naïve.

So in the memory of the core of Dr. Clarke, the long talks that we had at his house, Clarke House, under the Baobab trees in Egypt many, many, many times, his wisdom talked about the totality of our issues.

The Trayvon phenomenon is an American phenomenon.  And it is a phenomenon that has helped our children — in not knowing who they are — to destroy each other. So they buy guns and bullets. We don’t have any gun factories or bullet factories. They are not killing somebody to get justice. They are killing their friend. They are killing their neighbor. They are killing their colleague.

Dr. Clarke would say that’s our fault. We haven’t helped them to know that we are one people. There is no me and you. There is only we, we as one people.

The Trayvon phenomenon has brought stark reality to those who don’t know the story. Don’t be surprised. They brought with them to that jury who they were. They did not know him. They did not know Trayvon. They do not know our children. They do not know you.

“But I tell you that you are beloved, precious, special and dangerous if you know that you are beloved. You are special, exceptional and worthy and resilient. You are beloved.”

Workers: We Need a Living Wage!

Last week, hundreds of fast-foodworkers walked off their jobs in New York as part of an unprecedented week of strikes in seven cities across the country that’s hitting Chicago, St. Louis, Detroit, Milwaukee, Kansas City and Flint, Michigan. The workers, seen here on Fulton Street in Downtown Brooklyn, are calling for a $15 per-hour-wage, the right to form a union without retaliation, and an end to abusive labor practices. Said Rep. Jerrold Nadler (D-NY): “Companies like Burger King and McDonald’s are part of a $200 billion industry, but pay their workers so little many of them qualify for food stamps and other forms of public assistance.” (Photo credit: Bernice Elizabeth Green)

The Parent’s Notebook: Exploring The True Three R’s (Responsibility, Relationships and Resources) Necessary To Unleash The Innate Genius Of Our Children.

In Memory of Trayvon and Kamau

While thousands  marched  and rallied protesting the not guilty verdict bestowed upon George Zimmerman, (white,) in the murder of  17-year-old Trayvon Martin in Florida, another 17-year-old African-American youth,  Kamau Chandler, was  shot  and killed  on Brooklyn’s Bedford-Stuyvesant’s Fulton Street on July 27 in an encounter with two Black males.   Comparing the two incidents – while the age of the victims were the same, the race of the killers, the states and neighborhoods differed.  And while we can see the tears shed by family survivors and friends, we don’t know the extent of emotional havoc wreaked on Black youth and their caretakers in these communities. I think it’s safe to say that regardless of the murderer’s ethnicity, survivors are impacted, related or not ,  stressed individuals coexisting  in communities anticipating the next incident.

Kamau’s grandfather, Osei Chandler, was a member of the EAST and his father, Cheo attended Uhuru Sasa Shule, Brooklyn’s first Black Independent School.   Living in Charleston, SC since 1977, Osei has   hosted nationally syndicated radio programs, introducing jazz and reggae throughout the South.

Trayvon’s death at the hands of Zimmerman, a white man triggers protest marches while Black-on-Black murders are followed by silence.  In Trayvon’s and Kamau’s memory, and as a grandmother, I feel a responsibility for my grandchildren’s safety and know that I must include all children in order for my children to be safe.  Therefore parents, grandparents and relatives are invited to select one child and join the 45-Day Challenge, select a project with your child designed to have them discover their innate genius, recognizing and eliminating people, behaviors and activities that endanger.  The challenge for adults is to discover their true self and their innate genius.  In that process, we notice that we then see more genius of the children with whom we interact whether in our homes, schools or community.   Can we take that on, finding the gift that children you interact with bring.  You may have noticed that in groups there’s a tendency to cite negatives about others not there.  There must be someone to put down.  Energy is spent being against someone or something.  How often do youth hear what they bring to the space?   How often are youth three years and over asked for their opinion, allowed to choose activities, clothes or foods?   Of course, the choices are within boundaries preset.

We start with self-examination.  What would you list as your weaknesses and strengths?  Are you willing to take on a project to strengthen the weaknesses and use the strengths more frequently?  Are you willing to share your project with others, realizing that the ability to share them is a strength? Do you treat young people you encounter with respect? Do you look for things to compliment?  Are you on the watch for “put downs” or corrections made with a negative tone?  Each and every adult has the ability to make a difference and changing the lethal behavior of young people.  Can we join in increasing the self-esteem of the children so they have no need to bully, engage in putting others down or react to put downs. Contact PN at parentsnotebook@yahoo.com .

PN Alerts!

***Cheo Chandler, father of Kamau, is accepting donations at 2980 West 28th Street, Apt. 547, Brooklyn, NY 11224…an opportunity to show community, love and support.

***Double-Dutch Magazine

: free writing workshops for teen males and females – each participant will have access to a new Mac or PC laptop with WiFi during the session. Saturday, August 10th 1:00 – 3:00pm. Bklyn Public Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza. Questions? Call 800-284-8169 or e-mail doubledutchmag@aol.com.

***–The Metropolitan Museum of Art

– paid  Internship Program for students in grades 11 and 12 attending a NYC Dept. of Education  high school that receives Title I funding during 2013-2014.  The program meets October 23, 2013 – January 17, 2014. Download application at https://metmuseum.wufoo.com/forms/high-school-internship-application-form/. Application deadline is Wednesday, Sept. 18, 2013 at 5 pm.

***Mentor a Young Person in 30- Day Challenge in writing a book with Andrew Morrison – weekly conference calls, self-publish with CreateSpace.com.  Starts August 1st- no cost.  Register at www.writein30.eventbrite.com.

***Father shares his method of publishing his own child’s book at the age of six as a means to building a college fund.  The name of the company is Around Him Publishing.  Contact via email (info@aroundhim.com) or by phone (516)581-1571.

***Mentoring in Medicine Virtual Summer Science Camp starts on Monday, August 5th. For more information go to http://mimvc2.eventbrite.com/.